shop on Artfire and there is a link on my main page to the blog for the wedding fair that has all the participants...and there are allot of them with beautiful and very useful products. If you or someone in your close circle is planning a wedding this year, it really would be worth your while to check it out. We are supposed to blog about weddings, and that is what I am doing here...the only problem is that I don't feel like I have allot to say...but, as usual, I'll give it the old collage try.
My husband, John, and I have been married for almost 46 years - so our wedding is way back where I can hardly remember anymore. Other than the fact that I was a New England wasp marrying a Slovac Catholic, and all the stress that that created, mostly for my mother, not much is crystal clear. However, I do remember a few culture clashes - but those should be relegated to the back of my mind where they have been for almost 46 years.
Both of our daughters were married in our back yard in Warren, Ohio. Warren is a small town with, at that point, no wedding co ordinators. I have a few points to make to anyone planning a backyard ritual - first of all, think long and hard, because it can and does rain in most parts of this country. It rained until 5:00 for the 5:30 wedding of one of our daughters, you want to talk about stress...it was ugly. Thank goodness, I was wearing a hat for that one, cuz there was not enough time to dress and do my hair. Both ceremonies turned out beautifully but they were allot of work.
I decided, when I found out about the first wedding that I needed some help. I knew with everything being at home that when the inevitable crisis happened on the day of the wedding that I needed someone capable of handling it without involving me. I asked our decorator to give me a hand, because I had done business with her for years and she was organized and anile - just what I needed. It worked out fantastically...she got people seated before the ceremony...started the music when it had to start for the bride...got all the wedding party down the aisle...and best of all, helped me plan and do the decorations. This became a great sideline to her decorating business, other than the fact that she wouldn't charge me, I had no complaints. She helped with the second wedding too - which if anything was even harder, because we had done such a great job on the first wedding that there didn't seem to be any way to do as good a job, but we did manage. Both of our daughters had beautiful, dry, outdoor weddings.
I remember highlights from both of those special days - Lisa had very specific ideas on the table flowers, we had pictures of how she wanted them to look and the flowers to include to give to the florist. The flowers arrived with bright orange lilies - lovely flowers, but neither the color nor the flower were on Lisa's list - that was a tearful moment that got worse with each delivery. I just pulled the offending flowers and threw them out and we solved the problem. Amanda calling me when her dress came in, in tears, that her dress made her look like a pregnant marshmallow. Amanda's lovely and slighty weird friends from art school, posing around our yard in yoga poses - neither John, nor his sister knew what was going on. The Scottish bridesmade that had to find a chemist - took me a half hour to figure out she needed a drug store. The cookies I worked weeks on left in the freezer by the caterer. I could go on and on, but the best memory is of two beautiful brides, who had the wedding that they wanted, in the yard that they wanted to be married in, and they were both married by my sister. They were both very special days.
I can only wish that you too have a very special day and that your marriage is long, loving, and joyfull....